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I'm a recovering co-dependent practicing how to focus on myself every single day. 2 questions that help me with this are: What do I want? How do I feel? And I say them out loud all the time!

This is probably the first year I started worrying or thinking about aging. I know that I can do it gracefully, it's part of life and our society sends so many negative messages about it. Do what makes you happy, I always want to ensure I keep myself up to date. My mother stopped caring about herself and I don't want that for me. You're such a beautiful being ❤❤❤

Aging cracks me up! 🤭😂 I’m reasonably vain and always thought I would be up for some interference…. but so far it’s no and I think it will stay that way 💪🏻 In my early 50s I noticed things (face/skin etc) becoming …….interesting. It knocked me sideways for a little while then the humour and humility arrived. However, I’m surprised to be aging naturally. I’m more concerned about how I feel so that is my priority. I went through menopause without a blip, very lucky, and I put my efforts into eating well, moving and feeling good. I want to be walking with ease up the stairs at 100 with a smile on my face. I’ve been fairly natural with health as my priority for a long time but wondered how I’d handle getting older in this world, thankfully it’s not an issue and I’m really grateful for each day. Laughter is amazing, even if it’s at myself. I have an amazing (2nd) husband and I find joy and gratitude every day. Thanks for the fun chat lovely lady, Karen 🥰

Just received your book!❤

Unearned closeness!! 😮 that's it! 💯

Beautiful and practical advice from a beautiful and deep soul.❤

Another fantastic video! Thank you so much for bringing these difficult subjects to light. You put the scenarios I’m unfortunately in into better words than I can explain, like those feelings we don’t know how to express, in a way that I can make sense of. I truly appreciate you, you’re a beautiful soul, thank you.

I’m 28 and just found out that women necks and hands age 1st!!!!!! And now I been applying my cream now!! Thank you for this can you do more on aging not a lot of content on it lately!!! ❤

Would love to hear tips from other ladies here on natural facial moisturisers. I personally use primrose oil in the evening. It's quite light. How about you?

Respectfully, men get better with age. Women just age.😂

LOVE your perspectives on aging and what we can control of it! I am a 58 who is full of gratitude and embracing self love as I age. Thank you for shining your light and encouraging me to do the same!

First visit to your channel, you are lovely ❤

🙋🏾‍♀️ When you are your mother's only child, so you're the golden child and the scapegoat, depending on her mood for that day.

I care for my elderly mom who's health is poor. Between arranging every appointment, hearing aids, cattaract surgery, a cancer surgery which took 11 appointments, six weeks in hospital, driving to visit daily for 42 days, after care which seems to have a new requirement daily. I feel like I'm barely hanging on. She cannot afford to pay for long term care. There is no one else that can help. Every word you said here is true.

Happy birthday Terri!! I’m 36 but I follow your advice in this and many other things so I can live and age happy and gracefully ❤❤❤

Thanks so much for the tip using castor oil on our skin. I have never heard of it being used that way. They have said that vaseline is not good for skin, that it has toxins in it. I am not a chemist expert and don’t know for sure if thats true and going to try some castor oil instead of vaseline. Castor oil would probably be really good for removing make up too. Thank you!

Sleep music, grounding in sand, water, rain, jazz sounds

I'm 34. I'm not afraid of aging. I just want to have character and maturity as I age. Beauty fades so if you don't work on your character I feel that's what makes someone ugly. You can be an ok looking older woman that really kept her body but poor character at a certain age turns me off

I listened to Boundary boss on audible. And I am currently working with the workbook. I feel hopeful knowing what I can do now. I didn't even realize what was happening. At 48, I am so thankful I found your work and something that is making a difference in my life and those around me. It feels like a really big mountain to climb but at least I have some direction now!

Beautiful dress 🌹✨️

Thank you Terri for this Breath of Fresh AIR! To say that you are Inspiring is an Understatement! You are the Real McCoy out to consistently make changes happen in this world. I Thank you!

🇺🇸 💫 GC 🦅 👍 ⚘⚘⚘🕊🕊🕊 спасиба агронаяа я акуратни челавек 😊

I’m embracing my 68 years. In fact I’ve been blessed with great genes and a positive attitude. I don’t believe that health issues, physical fitness and weight gain are because of age. I do believe in staying slim and yoga to stay flexible and have good balance. Not just for looks, but to avoid getting on the Diabetes train. Gardening is my gym. I carry my 32 oz timed water bottle I refill twice. I don’t accept anything society says about aging. Too much is about MARKETING, so I avoid the media and news. My mantra is use it or lose it. You are as young as you feel, and I feel half my age. If you live life in the present, and follow your bliss, you can stay young at heart and you will glow from the inside out. My face routine is to just wash it with soap and water at the end of the day. If it feels dry, I apply a cheap non oily moisturizing cream. I rarely wear make up. I don’t wear foundation. Only a bit of cover up around the eyes with mascara for special occassions. Water is important. Seniors aren’t drinking enough. Anyway, that’s my two cents.

Happy birthday Terri! I have never been happier celebrating my last birthday (mid 30s). I had awful 2 years before that, terrible postpartum depression after second child, stress due to in-laws and parents, and my husband not having my back and setting boundaries with my in-laws. I went to therapy and we did couples counseling to work on our relationship. Have never been happier. With aging comes wisdom, and I am happy to be a wiser woman. I’m more comfortable with myself, I take care of myself, eat good food and exercise. I really embraced the “let them” approach and my life has never been more peaceful. I love watching and learning from you and Mel Robbins. I love wearing make up, I even became comfortable wearing a wig after awful postpartum hair loss.

"anything you've done, your mother has done better" -- yes...always. my mother always had to be better. it was always about her. she took up so much space. the whole room was hers, and I was part of the wall.

This was an absolutely fantastic video, saving to listen to over and over again

Man this is something I’m dealing with all my life. I’m 31 now and I still will never be able to face up to my horrible mother

Good point on changing the type of exercises

Totally my mom! The golden child died and is forever her favorite. My sister gets the worst treatment but now she finally disengaged. That leaves me (the youngest) to deal with her. She’s 89 and brutally mean. I can usually not give in but once in a while I’ll slip and engage. So sad it breaks my heart and I don’t want her to die alone. Luckily I don’t live near so its phone conversations.

We absolutely adore you Miss Terri! With your wonderful can-do spirit, we will all be aging gracefully together! You brought a smile of hope to my day🎉Thank you!

Love this. Thank you so much. X

Thanks a lot for this video ❤❤❤❤😊😊, this is a wonderful video 🙏🙏👍👍☺️☺️

Another taboo thing that happened and not recognized. When I was a senior I was voted for Homecoming Court. Class council want 2 winners that year but the two were put on the same court in Fall. They set up so she would get voted in again in winter. We were called in to the office, my and a friend. We were told they found votes destroyed, and pocketed. They chose the winner based on her grades. The winner and I went together to homecoming that night.

I look at myself and see a stranger. My mother wanted blonde hair, blue eyed children, and grandchildren. I think even the youngest grandchildren eye colors are changing. I have hazel eyes. I had dark eyes when I was little, my oldest was born with beautiful dark eyes. I can admire and appreciate her looks. I tan very well, but my skin was darker even through winter. Friends would put their arms up against mine. As I age I am lightening up. It was not a topic spoke about but my dad told me his mom had native american heritage. My brother did the DNA test for his own purposes. My brother has denied the ancestry until recently. I had to ask him what was wrong with him. He had to try and deny his father and grandmother's ancestry? He said it has to be 200 yrs ago or more. Whatever. My Aunt was beautiful! In her childhood photos it's obvious. She was so loved. She had the genealogy done on her grandmother. My grandfather gave me newspaper articles and my cousin gave me the book. I am going to plan a trip to discover what I can. I have done enough research now to know if someone is French Canadian they are most likely with some native heritage. The French King sent daughter's of the king to populate but often men took native women as well. As my dad is be taken by cancer there goes my link. I do have one cousin who recognizes it. My grandmother (she was so important to me), the last time she visited, tried to tell me not to hide my face. She asked me why I did. I knew love and acceptance from my grandparents, my auntie and my dad. Sorry, I went off on quite a tangent.

Happy Belated Birthday Terri This is a beautiful video! ❤